Frustration

I am not a racist. But I simply cannot tolerate people of certain race. Cannot understand how they can take certain very important matters so unseriously. And when you remind them stating that you have already explained to them the conditions many times, they would say 'oh BUT I THOUGHT'.......these came from adults.. how to expect the child to behave appropriately when adults behave like that?!

To add on something unrelated to the above paragraph, I forsee taking leave next year would be an uphill task.

Really don't know what to do. Can someone enlighten me?
In 2007 I was taking leave every quarter as I went overseas very often. During performance review in end 2007, I was told that I should not be taking leave so often as it was very difficult for them to allocate work to me.

In 2008, I took leave only in Jan 08 and a few days here and there. I intended to clear my leave mainly in December, which I forcasted. I was again told, by the SAME PERSON, that I should not wait till the end of the year then clear my leave. She told me I must clear leave every quarter of the year!!!! Look who is talking?!

Then she die die want me to clear my leave in Nov and Dec 08, instead of my forcasted one.

Can somebody relieve me of my frustration? I need an avenue to relieve my frustration......so sick...